Unchivalrous Douchebaggery Acts

I was browsing through fencing.net's articles and came through an article concerning a sportsmanship-related experience that was written by a coach. The article was written by Mr. Damien Lehfeldt about his experience in encountering his student's behaviour towards a ref during a competition. Do read the article in here, it immediately became a reflection for me towards my behaviours all the time during practices and competitions.

Back in the regionals, although I had so much fun in competing in it, I remember that I cussed towards one of the referees there.

Oddly enough, he did not give me any card or even warning for my ignorant behaviour towards him (any methods regarding scornful abuse towards the referee is supposed to be fined by card... right?). Instead, he just took everything like there was nothing happened. I clearly remember the ref seemed to be smiling by himself after I cussed at him. I was so overwhelmed by my own emotions I ended being reckless, it was a complete idiotic act that I just did.

Yes it might look like something trivial but now, after I read the article made by Mr. Lehfeldt, I'm feeling so aroused by my own behaviour during the regionals.

And so I began to act all-awkward every time I came across the ref because it turned out that, he was one of the coaches for the Jakarta Fencing Team.

Fencing may be a sport and I do find letting out stresses and emotions after one intense period as reviving but... I don't find cussing as a chivalrous act, I mean, was there even any dignified knight back in the Middle Ages who was actually cussing because he couldn't defeat his opponent?

One of my teammates (left) with our coach.

Friends', coaches', and parents' involvements in developing the future seedlings of fencing regarding sportsmanships are very much important. Our sport is not made to be some sort of a gala to show who's more superior than who, who's got the most medals, who's got the most touches, and the like.

"The real difference between what makes a good fencer and a world-class fencer is how they are able to control their emotions." - Jed Dupree, "Olympic Fencing Prodigy: Race Imboden" by THNKR